Our most recent in-field experiences approaching, meeting and talking to women have revealed some shocking observations.
Clearly, in a “new normal” world where people have forgotten how to be social, and despite all the apparent division we see on social media, women everywhere are starving for social attention.
But most men are at a total loss as to how to engage them.
Whether it’s because we don’t want to “bother” women, fear of “rejection” or simply not having anything to say to begin with, men and women aren’t meeting anymore.
Meanwhile, online dating has failed us. With so little substance and so many distractions, more users are addicted to the app than actually connecting with each other.
The truth is clear: The first man to actually step up and meet women in real life again will be spoiled for choice.
After all, he’ll have little, if any competition. If anything, more guys than ever have flat-out given up on women, ceding victory to the man who goes for it.
But it’s just as obvious that old, shop-worn PUA tactics and “pickup lines” aren’t going to work…as if they ever really have.
After literally hundreds of live, in-field approaches during Ten-Plus Live weekends, one specific strategy emerged as consistently–and powerfully–effective when approaching, meeting and talking to women.
I stumbled upon the idea because I’ve done improv comedy for years. And when it finally dawned on me, I kicked myself for not having figured this out earlier.
At the first improv class you ever attend, ONE factor will be driven home time and again: No matter what happens during an improv game or skit, during the back-and-forth banter you must always think, “yes, and…”.
That’s why improv is a form of comedy, isn’t it? Every time a conversation follows the “yes, and…” thread, it’s fun. And almost invariably, it also gets funny.
Boom. You can already sense the magic to be worked here, especially in a world where everyone seems so, well…cranky and negative.
But here’s the thing. The media has lied to us about people being so divided and angry. Out there in the real world, the vast majority of us want to get along. And importantly, girls still just want to have fun.
While in-field with guys talking to women, treating every interaction as improv WORKED…and did so SPECTACULARLY.
And once we fine-tuned the strategy over the course of dozens of conversations, we were unstoppable.
In context, it’s ridiculous to think a woman would be annoyed, or that you’d ever endure a “harsh rejection”. “Yes, and…” satisfies what women are practically dying for socially. It turns the tables on negativity. Best of all…it presents you as an attractive, masculine leader who naturally invites a woman’s feminine sexual nature to finally come out and play.
The “yes, and…” strategy is neither complicated nor difficult to use in the real world.
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Scot McKay is a professional dating and relationship consultant, bestselling author, adventure traveler, conference speaker, media personality, stand-up comedian, play-by-play announcer and podcast pioneer. His podcast The Mountain Top has been ranked #1 in its category on Apple Podcasts. He reaches over 300,000 people all over the world through his newsletters, podcasts and social media presence. He is the the author of twelve books, sixteen multi-media programs, and hosts a monthly Masterclass For Men. Scot has been featured by over 400 media outlets worldwide including MTV, ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, Men’s Health, Elite Daily, Forbes, Discovery Channel and The Wall Street Journal.