The harsh truth when it comes to success with women is if you blend in with everybody, you’ll attract nobody.
That’s true for everyone. Think about it, it’s not like you’re out there fantasizing about “Nancy Nobody”, right?
Meanwhile, women everywhere go on and on about how much they’re craving a REAL man.
Sure, they want a real man who’s genuinely masculine. But they also want a genuine, masculine man who is authentically real…and stands out from the crowd.
When they finally meet him, they they can’t stop thinking about him.
If they have to guess what’s up with you, you can forget about giving them that feeling of safety and security they NEED in order to WANT you.
So how can you get this right…the first time? That’s what this month’s Masterclass For Men is all about.
You’ve heard the shop-worn mantra over and over again. But deep down you already know it’s advice given to pretenders.
The man you truly are is already there, trying to get out…yearning to make a name for himself, effortlessly attracting women everywhere.
That’s why getting real with yourself is the ultimate source of freedom. Not only does it open a whole new world of discovery, it propels both your career and your success with women.
The global rise in media technology has not only subjected us to a fake world, it has hypnotized the masses into thinking that’s okay.
Meanwhile, more of us as men than ever have recognized all the glitz and hype isn’t for us…only to “relax” into blending into the background in our cargo shorts and navy blue polo shirts.
But that’s about as empty an existence as you can get…and it eats at your very soul as a man.
For sure, you don’t have to answer to the cult of personality. But you can–and should–boldly stand up for yourself, and then stand for something even bigger.
And as always, this Masterclass For Men will keep it real. That’s my solemn guarantee.
Real answers for real men of action. From now on, first dates and text messages leave her wanting more, and she can’t stop thinking about you.
Consider it the ultimate workshop where you find your “David” in a block of marble. Art knows no greater or more noble venture.
It’s time to stand out or step off.
Reserve your seat for this unforgettable and essential Masterclass For Men, and start inviting women into your reality now.
It’s as if you’re always just a “face in the crowd”
You feel somehow underrated…as if you never get the attention or credit you deserve
Frustrated women can’t figure out who you really are
You downplay accomplishments to avoid seeming arrogant
It seems like few people take a genuine interest in you, let alone your passions
All the women you meet seem to be “fake”
Mundane dates and stale conversations lead to “forgets and regrets”
You’re not merely noticed, you’re welcomed
Suddenly you’re truly appreciated…almost to the point of feeling overrated (!)
Your authenticity generates instant attraction and trust
You communicate your value confidently without apology
Your story is your message…women are enraptured and lives are transformed
You start enjoying real connection with women
Suddenly, she’s obsessed and can’t stop thinking about you
Be Her One And Only...Often Imitated, But Never Duplicated
Why "normal" men stay invisible (and the immediate fixes) The brand elements women notice in the first few seconds of meeting you How to own your authentic edge, without the "try hard" vibe Go from being underrated to getting the credit and attention you deserve...even to the point of being overrated (which is a VERY good thing) Plan and run first dates that leave her breathless and obsessed Text messaging secrets that make her think about you nonstop How to find women whose brand pairs perfectly with yours How to never copy anyone...and (if anything) make other guys try to copy YOU instead The ancient Japanese secret to leading a meaningful, fulfilling life The simple (but overlooked) reason why being your authentic self seems so difficult nowadays (and why it's all a dirty trick) How to rise above "fake truth" and be an authentic man...with amazing results What your "personal brand" really is, and why it matters SO much Devastating signs you're coming off as inauthentic (or "off-brand") to women How to avoid the subtle dangers of falling for the "Cult Of Personality" How to be a true "brandividual" without being a famous social media influencer The "Reference Point Problem", and why it's probably keeping you from the women you really want How to lean into "Authentic Differentiation" in a way that makes the RIGHT women adore you on sight The "Polarization Principle" weeds out the wrong women, and attracts the right ones like a supermagnet The pure genius of the "Authenticity Paradox" that empowers your image without ever being fake or dishonest Finally...how to make "just be yourself" good advice, for a change How the "False Humility Trap" keeps you from shining your brightest when it matters most How to be your own best salesperson...even if you're not in sales How also to market yourself like a pro (and yes...this is WAY different than sales) Why authentic branding matters IMMENSELY to women (NOT to be underestimated) How to be instantly memorable to women in all the right ways Simple but powerful ways to rise above the faceless herd of "average" men How to stay authentic and unforgettable to your dream woman...even over the course of a long-term relationship The alchemy of the first impression: How to master that 3-7 second window How to actually identify and pay special attention to what people notice first about you How to engineer your environment so your "set up" refects positively on your true self How to ride herd on your "details" so they help define you, not betray you How to eliminate any sneaky, attraction-killing source of "brand confusion" in your life Nobody's perfect...but here's how to stay consistently authentic without making yourself nuts over it Steps to crazy-cool "Energy Management" of your own personal, signature vibe Why men who are concerned over being "alpha" or "beta" are already shooting their own brand in the foot Why what you say "no" to is as important to your authentic presence as what you say "yes" to What is the "Scarcity Signal", and how does it make the women you want most want you more? How to take total, bulletproof control of your brand and your personal reputation How to maximize your story and your narrative so women will want more of you, not less The "Memorability Formula", and why every man needs "pattern interrupts" that stick How to identify, neutralize and eliminate BOTH expernal stereotypes AND self-imposed internal barriers Perform a "Digital Footprint Audit" that finally makes technology work FOR you instead of AGAINST you How to increase your social proof by "keeping it real", and watch women perk up and love you for it What your "reputation currency" is, and how to manage it How to curate your lifestyle so that it's 100% impressive...no bragging necessary How the "Evolution Mindset" can keep you steady and on-brand over the course of a lifetime of changes How to recover from brand damage, and rebuild quickly and easily after setbacks World Exclusive: How to be iconic...even within your social circle 
($97 Value)
Enjoy the full and complete Masterclass For Men from exactly one year ago. It’s the Holiday Season, so you’ll be as prepared as humanly possible to meet and relate to women…all the way from Thanksgiving, through Christmas, New Year’s and even Valentine’s Day.
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For the first time ever, enjoy a full month of access to the X & Y Communications AI companion. All answers are directly and exclusively from 20 years of X & Y Communications content. Ask anything and expect a full, detailed answer. NOTE: This is a FREE bonus and will NOT auto-renew.
($27 Value)
My Power Sessions program lets you ask me unlimited email questions, with real answers in 24 hours or less. By special arrangement, for a full month you can get all the clarification you need after enjoying the Masterclass. NOTE: This is a FREE bonus and will NOT auto-renew.
($225 Value)
It’s easy. Use my online schedule app to get on my calendar for a no-holds-barred 30-minute private Q & A session with me personally. It’s FREE with your ticket. The whole purpose is to make sure your remaining questions after the Masterclass are answered with crystal clarity.
Full Video Presentation Powered By Zoom Gain Clarity On A Specific Topic And Remove Sticking Points Permanent Access To The Presentation, Slides And Other Bonuses After The Event 30 Days Of E-Mail Coaching - Ask Questions As You Go Handle The Holidays + VAMANOS 30 Minutes Of LIVE Zoom Consultation 
A FULL VIDEO EVENT covering how to build your authentic brand so women never forget you BONUS: Ask questions via email or Zoom BONUS: Full access forever to the complete video presentation BONUS: Full access forever to the deck of slides BONUS: Immediate access to Handle The Holidays + VAMANOS BONUS: FREE bonuses in the Download Portal after the event 
When Do I Get My Access?
Immediately after you complete your order, you’ll get a welcome email. Shortly thereafter, you’ll receive full access information via email. If for any reason you don’t get these messages, check your spam. If you still don’t get it, my support team will assist you promptly and efficiently, as always. Contact: support@deservewhatyouwant.com
How Much Of This Will Be Pure Content?
This Masterclass will hit the ground running with practical, actionable info. It will be fluff-free from the very start. There will be plenty of time for your questions at the end, too…all in real time.
But I Feel Pretty “Real” Now. It’s Not Like I’m Going Around Trying To Be Someone I’m Not.
I completely get that. What this Masterclass For Men will do is not change you, per se, but rather transform you into a man who boldly, confidently and unapologetically presents every facet of his true and authentic self to the world. No more hiding out as “Mr. Average”, especially on purpose.
All Of This Talk About Being “Overrated” On Purpose, And Getting Women To “Not Stop Thinking About You”. Is This Seriously Possible?
Think about it. You already know someone who gets all the credit and the attention, even though they’re usually not doing as much as it seems. And you’ve probably also thought WAY too much about a certain girl before…without even knowing why. Let’s just say both of those people know exactly what they’re doing, and you’re about to get in on all the secrets.
Are You Really Forking Over Handle The Holidays And A Free Month Of VAMANOS This Time?
Absolutely, and I’m happy to do so. This is a true 2-for-1 Masterclass. And hey, VAMANOS is so new this is the first time I’ve really had the chance to include it. You’ll find it’s truly valuable for asking questions on the fly…whether on the topic of this Masterclass or not.
What If I Have Some Of Your Programs Already, Or Have Hired You As My Coach?
The format of this Masterclass is unique in that it doesn’t focus on teaching new premises per se as much as sorting out what WORKS relative to all of the other dating, seduction and relationship advice out there. If I’m your personal coach, this is a unique opportunity to not only get super-focused on what works for YOU personally, but also to interact with a group of like-minded men in real time. In short, you’ll benefit as much, if not more than any other man in the class.
If For Any Reason I’m Not Satisfied, What Happens?
That is extremely unlikely as this Masterclass will over-deliver big time. BUT…if you’re not 100% happy, I’ll give you a full refund. Again, just contact support.
I found so many good, RELEVANT nuggets in the class as well that talk about the real issues men should consider along with tips that I know will work with real women in the real world (the "half-step" is genius). Jim
You helped me to start thinking differently about what I really wanted. This allowed me to really sit back and raise my standards and not just settle for anyone anymore.
After just a few months of talking in depth to you about what I really wanted, I met the perfect *100 out of 100* on my spreadsheet and have finally found the woman who I'll be spending the rest of my life with.
It doesn't hurt either that I'm her perfect guy as well...I guess that's what being a Big 4 Man is what it comes down to in the end!Nick
Scot McKay has shared bad jokes with North Korean military officers, sipped coffee at Pablo Escobar’s home (served by his maid), survived a shark attack while surfing, held his breath as the pride of lions walked by his tent, and blitzed through California canyons with his knee on the double-yellow line at 140 mph. Yet somehow, he has also been referred to as the “sane one” on X by Scott Adams, of all people.
But despite once being mobbed by the Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders, being able to back a 30′ travel trailer into its slot on the first try, and that time he beat the World Champion at his own sport (no details provided), he’s still the most objective and down-to-earth dating expert out there.
He’s also the most fluff-free fountainhead of original dating and relationship content in his field, if only because that’s what nineteen years of immersive geekery on the subject does for someone.
Scot’s wife Emily is his “proof of concept”, given that she’s just as sweet as she is smokin’ hot and still gets carded at her age. But you’ll never hear her brag about any of that, only Scot.
His long-running podcast The Mountain Top is a ListenNotes top 1% show, and has also been named a Top 10 Dating Podcast by DatingAdvice.com. A long time ago Grader.com weirdly ranked Scot the #1 most influential Facebook user in the world.
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