You’re not new at this. You’ve studied countless books, programs and videos about how to meet, attract and relate to women. But somehow, it’s not coming together like it should.
It doesn’t matter whether you follow so-called “conventional wisdom”, or try something that feels counter-intuitive.
You do exactly what mainstream men’s advice says to do, and then get the exact opposite results from what you expected.
Meanwhile, you look over your shoulder and some other perfectly “normal” guy gets the girl with what looks like almost zero effort.
What does he have that you don’t? He’s certainly no “better” than you.
And it’s not about having better “game”, either. But there’s something going on there that you haven’t figured out yet after all these years.
You’re not alone. Almost every man goes through this. The weird part is you certainly haven’t done anything particularly wrong out there. In fact, it feels like you’ve done everything right.
Well, in this month’s Masterclass For Men we’ll finally get to the bottom of why some of the best advice you’ve ever been given flat out doesn’t work.
The most frustrating part? Yes…it might work great for some other guy, but not YOU.
On paper, at least, there’s no reason for this. In fact, you’re likely a great guy who deserves what he wants, and women know it. It’s just that what works with women isn’t always “plug and play”, and it’s understanding the nuances of each scenario that will move the needle for you.
But it’s still true, and probably always will be, that women will NOT help you figure this all out. Sometimes, they don’t even know what the problem is themselves. It’s up to you to man up and lead.
The good news is it’s not particularly complicated to start succeeding with women where you haven’t before. Mostly, it’s about looking at each situation in a new and different way. Instead of relying on tactics, you start seeing patterns and how they flow instead.
In the vast majority of sticky scenarios with women, there’s just one or two critical pieces missing from the puzzle. When you know what they are and add them back into the big picture, you finally have a complete plan…and the results follow.
Why do women say they want one thing, then choose the other? Are we as men supposed to be “stoic” or “emotionally available”? Why do women sometimes reject men they clearly like? Why am I told to “just be myself” when it’s clearly not working?
In this Masterclass For Men, we’ll call out dozens of specific situations that confound men the most, and expose exactly what’s going on under the surface in each one of them. Then, you’ll gain a whole new perspective on how to solve those puzzles, clear the roadblocks, and prevent problems from ever happening again in the first place. From there, it’s all about finally enjoying the success with women you deserve.
No more confusion. No more missed opportunities with women. No more kicking yourself after the fact. From now on, you’ll have the right plan and the right moves most other men probably overlook…and get the girl. This Masterclass will show you how to think instead of piling on more tactics upon tactics.
That’s the edge you’ve been looking for all along, and it’s the true pathway to simplifying and solving most any situation with any woman. Best of all, you won’t have to consult a handbook every time. Grab your ticket, finally complete the big picture, and never look back.
You have the right move, but not the right mindset. Or the exact opposite is true. It’s frustrating!
You’re a good guy with a full life, and yet some other guy who’s no better than you gets the girl instead.
You imagine all the worst-case-scenarios about how it might go with women, and then live the nightmare in real life
The harder you try to get women to go out with you and have sex with you, the more you fail.
You know a woman’s no good for you, but you end up with her anyway…like history repeating itself.
Your authentic self is a great guy, yet “just being yourself” always seems to fall flat.
You do the same things over and over trying to get better results. Einstein would think you’re insane!
Your moves flow directly from the right mindset. You get into a new rhythm with women that works.
You lift the veil on how to flow more smoothly with women, and leave other men to figure out how you did it.
You figure out how and why disasters with women happen, avoid them all, and emerge through the minefield unscathed.
Once and for all, you have more women in your life than ever before…with far less effort.
You naturally attract women who are not only beautiful and sexy, but also want to be with you.
Women find you interesting and attractive, without having to change anything but your mindset.
You consider each new scenario with women, identify the solution, then do exactly what will work.
Here's What We'll Cover
The truth about how some men's seduction advice has actually HARMED us more than it's HELPED us...and how to reverse the damage The REAL reason why the RIGHT moves with women so often get the WRONG results (and it's not what you think) The ONE factor that most men focus on...that blinds us from seeing the true pattern to success with women Finally: REAL ANSWERS for what to do when "just be yourself" isn't working What to do when she has a boyfriend...or even just SAYS she has one. Or what if an ex-boyfriend resurfaces out of nowhere? Is it YOU, or is it HER? Here's how to know for sure, and stop automatically blaming yourself. Why women "reject" perfectly good men...even when they obviously LIKE them and are ATTRACTED to them What to do when she's super BUSY, has no time, or is around other people (even her family or kids) What to do when your girlfriend tells you she "doesn't feel safe" with you...and the right way to fix the problem that almost NO men ever figure out How to know when a woman who's being difficult (or even bitchy) is actually wildly attracted to you How to talk to a woman when a serious conversation needs to happen How to handle the "silent treatment"...and better yet, avoid it altogether Why you feel INVISIBLE, even when women are NOTICING you The myth about "Chads" getting women...and why you need to know the TRUTH Why we fall the HARDEST for women who are the WORST for us...and how to break the pattern forever Why do some relationships seem effortless, while others feel like HARD WORK? What if your look is not "classically" masculine enough...or TOO much so? Why it's so hard to let go of OUTCOME DEPENDENCY, even though we know it's killing us...and our chances with women. Why women TEST men...and when it's not really a test at all How is it you can become LESS attractive to your own partner in a relationship, even as other women are MORE attracted to you? How can you be more STOIC as a masculine man...even while women are clamoring for "EMOTIONAL AVAILABILITY"? What to do when her PERSONALITY or PHYSIQUE changes...and you're losing attraction 
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How Much Of This Will Be Pure Content?
This Masterclass will hit the ground running with practical, actionable info. It will be fluff-free from the very start. There will be plenty of time for your questions at the end, too…all in real time.
Is This Really Gonna Work? It Just Seems I’m Doomed No Matter What I Try.
I completely understand why you’d feel that way after seeing the same pattern repeat for so long. But the plain truth is when you repair the mechanism that’s failing you, that’s exactly how and when you start seeing much better results. You’ve heard of “Einstein’s definition of insanity”, I’m sure. It’s time for a different plan, otherwise you’ll indeed keep getting the same results.
What If I Have Some Of Your Programs Already, Or Have Hired You As My Coach?
The format of this Masterclass is unique in that it doesn’t focus on teaching new premises per se as much as sorting out what WORKS relative to all of the other dating, seduction and relationship advice out there. If I’m your personal coach, this is a unique opportunity to not only get super-focused on what works for YOU personally, but also to interact with a group of like-minded men in real time. In short, you’ll benefit as much, if not more than any other man in the class.
If For Any Reason I’m Not Satisfied, What Happens?
That is extremely unlikely as this Masterclass will over-deliver big time. BUT…if you’re not 100% happy, I’ll give you a full refund. Again, just contact support.
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I found so many good, RELEVANT nuggets in the class as well that talk about the real issues men should consider along with tips that I know will work with real women in the real world. Jim
You helped me to start thinking differently about what I really wanted. This allowed me to really sit back and raise my standards and not just settle for anyone anymore.
After just a few months of talking in depth to you about what I really wanted, I met the perfect *100 out of 100* on my spreadsheet and have finally found the woman who I'll be spending the rest of my life with.
It doesn't hurt either that I'm her perfect guy as well...I guess that's what being a Big 4 Man is what it comes down to in the end!Nick
Scot McKay has shared bad jokes with North Korean military officers, sipped coffee at Pablo Escobar’s home (served by his maid), survived a shark attack while surfing, held his breath as a pride of lions walked by his tent, and blitzed through California canyons with his knee on the double-yellow line at 140 mph. Yet somehow, he has also been referred to as the “sane one” on X by Scott Adams, of all people.
But despite once being mobbed by the Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders, being able to back a 30′ travel trailer into its slot on the first try, and that time he beat the World Champion at his own sport (no details provided), he’s still the most objective and down-to-earth dating expert out there.
Looking back, it’s a good thing Scot got laid off from a notoriously foolish Fortune 50 company the same week he closed a $400 million deal. Otherwise, he might still be in a cubicle instead of doing play-by-play announcing for BMX races and empowering men to greatness in their careers and their relationships with women all these years.
These days, he remains the most fluff-free fountainhead of original content in his field, if only because that’s what over twenty years of immersive geekery on the subject does for someone.
Scot’s wife Emily is his “proof of concept”, given that she’s just as sweet and talented as she is smokin’ hot. But you’ll never hear her brag about any of that, only Scot.
His long-running podcast The Mountain Top is a ListenNotes top 1% show, and has also been named a top 10 dating and masculinity podcast by multiple outlets including FeedSpot, Goodpods, and DatingAdvice.com. A long time ago Grader.com weirdly ranked Scot the #1 most influential Facebook user in the world.
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