21st-century technology was supposed to simplify life. Take away stress. Make life easier.
I mean, the promise is still out there. Elon Musk recently said, “In ten years, work will be optional.” Yeah, right.
The reality we’re living in is the exact opposite. You have more to do, on stricter timelines, and lose more sleep thinking about it all.
With work pressures and everything else we’re bombarded with, it’s no wonder most men barely notice women around them…let alone meet them.
Find time for an actual relationship? You’ve got to be kidding. It’s all you can do to get out of the office by 8pm on a Friday night, and Saturdays are spent scrambling to keep up with errands.
But that’s not how it has to be.
Ironically, we live in a world of modern “conveniences”, and yet there’s a raging loneliness epidemic.
When we’re honest with ourselves, we know sharing life with a great woman should be a higher priority. Yet we keep putting it off while urgent tasks and goals consume our time.
You’re not alone. Way too many guys fall into the same trap.
But meanwhile, everywhere we go we see other perfectly normal guys with great women by their side.
What’s the difference? What do they have that we don’t?
The short answer is time.
Chronic “busy-ness” keeps us from having a terrific woman in our lives. This mess didn’t just happen. Something caused it. We’re going to call it out and fix it.
In this month’s Masterclass For Men, you’ll discover the sneaky ways we ended up here in the first place, how to escape the trap, and how to finally make time for amazing women in your life.
And yes, there are real solutions that work. After all, the world’s most powerful men with the most on their plate somehow tend to have plenty of time left over for relationships with women…and eventually a family. How do they do that?
We’ll unlock their mindsets, skills and habits, bringing elite-level social power and efficiency to your life, too.
You can get the job done, handle pressing family matters, and build toward reaching your ambitious goals. And no, you don’t have to do it alone. Here’s how to do it all, including enjoying the company of a great woman.
Leave behind the unrelenting pressure hitting you from all sides. Circle this Wednesday night on your calendar. It’s when you take control of your schedule, feel the power, and start living life on your terms.
No more watching weeks and months slip by as if you’ve been running on a treadmill the whole time. Life feels balanced, like it always should have been.
When you find the time, you find the girl. And you find yourself happier and more fulfilled.
This is the one conversation no man should ever be too “busy” to have. The stakes are too high.
Get your ticket for this Masterclass For Men and finally solve one of the biggest problems high-achieving men face.
You look up, it’s 9pm, and you’re the last one to leave the office…again. When you get home, all you want to do is sleep.
Life’s stresses bear down on you so much that you don’t even notice women around you.
On the off chance you do meet a sexy, interesting woman, your schedule just doesn’t work out with hers.
You have too many “high priority” tasks in play to make time for going out with women.
Yet another year has slipped away, and you still haven’t met and attracted any women lately.
You’re too busy with aging parents, precocious kid and even your ex to even consider finding time for someone else.
You live as if life is controlling you, not vice-versa.
You take care of business on weekdays, relax with a great woman in the evenings, and cut loose on weekends.
You’re finally able to take a breath, and realize amazing women have been noticing YOU all along.
You have the newfound flexibility to plan and enjoy your time with a woman, without feeling preoccupied.
Enjoying the company of women can finally be included in your list of top priorities.
You maximize your social schedule with women NOW, while still getting everything else done.
Now that you’ve discovered how to balance your family relationships, you finally have time for meeting women too
Take your life back and start feeling alive again.
Less time for stress, more time for women. Here's what we'll cover in this Masterclass For Men:
You're productive, responsible and driven. So why is your personal life always in last place? The truth will surprise you. The disturbing way modern life trains men to become optimized for success…at the expense of success with women Why modern productivity culture may be quietly training men to become worse with women, not better...and how to break free The subtle tricks we play on ourselves to rationalize having no time for women (and they're all vicious, dirty lies)r There's a specific human character flaw that keeps men stuck with every single one of their shortcomings forever. Most high-achieving men suffer with this blind spot. How high-performing men unwittingly build lifestyles where meeting women becomes almost mathematically impossible Meanwhile, ultra-high achievers (think billionaires) with massive responsibility still find time to enjoy the company of women. Here are their secrets. The devastating way chronic busy-ness trains your brain to dismiss opportunities with women before they even register Why men who pride themselves on efficiency often become ironically inefficient with women What if the biggest obstacle to meeting women isn't your workload, but something much less obvious hiding inside your daily routine? The hidden lifestyle design mistake that makes meeting women almost mathematically impossible for busy men Uncomfortable truth: Other people's priorities have quietly hijacked your time...and kept women out of your life You probably have far more "dead time" in your daily life than you realize. Here's how to wake it up...and find more time for women by doing so. The one word you can start saying to dramatically free up more time for women Getting too busy was likely a "death by a thousand cuts". Here's how to stop beating yourself up and open up massive blocks of newfound free time. There's one counterintuitive thing insanely busy men need to spend more time on, and doing so will actually free up MORE time for women You can actually tell a woman upfront that you're busy without killing her interest in you. In fact, done right, it does the opposite. TThere's a type of woman perfectly suited for a man with your schedule. Can you pick her out of a crowd? Some of your biggest time obligations are far more negotiable than you've been led to believe. Which ones? Single dads and caregivers think they have it harder than everyone else when it comes to dating. But there's actually an unexpected advantage. 
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Dude. If I Have No Time For Women, How Am A Supposed To Find Time For This Masterclass?
The answer is dead simple. Investing just a couple of hours in this Masterclass is guaranteed to open up far more free time for you in the future. The ROI is clear: You’re not just about to get your dating life back, you’re about to get control over your whole life back.
No, Seriously. I Am Absolutely Slammed Over Here. There’s Just No Time Left For Women.
I fully realize it can feel that way. But I’m about to unlock free time for you in ways you don’t expect. For most men, the overwhelm happened slowly over time. But you can put it to an end almost immediately. I’ll show you how to finally breathe again…and start enjoying life with the fantastic women you deserve.
How Much Of This Will Be Pure Content?
This Masterclass will hit the ground running with practical, actionable info. It will be fluff-free from the very start. There will be plenty of time for your questions at the end, too…all in real time.
What If I Have Some Of Your Programs Already, Or Have Hired You As My Coach?
The format of this Masterclass is unique in that it doesn’t focus on teaching new premises per se as much as sorting out what WORKS relative to all of the other dating, seduction and relationship advice out there. If I’m your personal coach, this is a unique opportunity to not only get super-focused on what works for YOU personally, but also to interact with a group of like-minded men in real time. In short, you’ll benefit as much, if not more than any other man in the class.
If For Any Reason I’m Not Satisfied, What Happens?
That is extremely unlikely as this Masterclass will over-deliver big time. BUT…if you’re not 100% happy, I’ll give you a full refund. Again, just contact support.
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You helped me to start thinking differently about what I really wanted. This allowed me to really sit back and raise my standards and not just settle for anyone anymore.
After just a few months of talking in depth to you about what I really wanted, I met the perfect *100 out of 100* on my spreadsheet and have finally found the woman who I'll be spending the rest of my life with.
It doesn't hurt either that I'm her perfect guy as well...I guess that's what being a Big 4 Man is what it comes down to in the end!Nick in Boston, MA
Scot McKay has shared bad jokes with North Korean military officers, sipped coffee at Pablo Escobar’s home (served by his maid), survived a shark attack while surfing, held his breath as the pride of lions walked by his tent, and blitzed through California canyons with his knee on the double-yellow line at 140 mph. Yet somehow, he has also been referred to as the “sane one” on X by Scott Adams, of all people.
But despite once being mobbed by the Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders, being able to back a 30′ travel trailer into its slot on the first try, and that time he beat the World Champion at his own sport (no details provided), he’s still the most objective and down-to-earth dating expert out there.
He’s also the most fluff-free fountainhead of original dating and relationship content in his field, if only because that’s what nineteen years of immersive geekery on the subject does for someone.
Scot’s wife Emily is his “proof of concept”, given that she’s just as sweet as she is smokin’ hot and still gets carded at her age. But you’ll never hear her brag about any of that, only Scot.
His long-running podcast The Mountain Top is a ListenNotes top 1% show, and has also been named a Top 10 Dating Podcast by DatingAdvice.com. A long time ago Grader.com weirdly ranked Scot the #1 most influential Facebook user in the world.
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