There’s a lot of talk in the world of men’s advice about “rejection” from women.
As rough as that sounds, the most painful situation is when something inside holds you back from even approaching at all. It’s as if you’ve rejected yourself.
In those situations you’ll never even know if she would have liked you or not. She may even have been perfect for you.
My name is Scot McKay, and I remember those situations happening to me as if it were yesterday.
In fact, if you’re like me, you remember the faces of the women you should have approached more than the ones who actually said “no”. That’s how much it hurts.
Well, this has gone on long enough. It’s crystal clear that the shame you feel when you “fail to deploy” with a woman is far worse than anything she could have done to you.
Yet, something stops you in your tracks when it’s “go time”…just like it has for years and years.
What’s really frustrating is how all advice for shy guys reads the same. It’s as if this shouldn’t have been a problem at all, so “just get over it”.
Or is it that you’re an introvert? Or are you both shy and introverted? Even the “experts” can’t seem to tell the difference between the two, though you sense there’s a VERY REAL one.
But whatever is going on, right now it’s standing between you and the woman you deserve.
Most men’s advice wants to turn you into an extravert, which misses the point. The problem was never YOU. Introverts can–and should–have very real advantages with women. Shyness is the only real barrier, and you can beat it.
This Masterclass For Men bridges the gap, and arms you for victory. You’ll not only get crystal clarity on the differences between shyness and introversion, you’ll get practical steps for clearing the mental and social roadblocks that paralyze you when action is necessary.
From now on, attract women and relate to them with bold, calm confidence and finally show them who you really are.
No more bouts of shyness that rob women of seeing how perfect you are for them.
No more being a “wallflower” while the rest of the world is happily socializing and connecting with each other.
No more watching a silver-tongued dude get the girl instead of you…all because you never gave yourself a fighting chance.
Yes, you can leave shyness behind and give women a real vision for who you are and why they should adore you.
The best news of all is you don’t have to be someone you’re not to finally get the woman you want.
When you conquer shyness it feels like weakness leaving your body.
Meanwhile, when you understand and harness the power of being an introvert, you can immediately sense why you’re a certain kind of woman’s dream man.
But nothing changes until you DO something. This Masterclass For Men reverses years of misguided advice, ends the self-sabotage, and finally fixes the real problem.
Secure your ticket and leave the endless cycle of frustration behind.
You dread seeing your shame reflected in a woman’s eyes.
You’re sure women would like you…if only you could finally show them who you really are.
You talk yourself to staying in again tonight…with another flimsy excuse.
Even the thought of meeting women sounds exhausting.
Are you shy, introverted, or both? It’s confusing, if not impossible to figure out.
Society lies about your situation being hopeless, and you wonder if you’re bound to be alone forever.
You boldly lock eyes with a sexy woman, expecting sparks.
Your authentic self is on full display, and the women you actually want are delighted.
You look forward to venturing out, excited about the women you’ll meet.
Your new habit of success with women is exhilarating.
You eliminate shyness, while accentuating your power as a true introvert.
You’re armed with the truth and a proven roadmap to confidently attract the woman you deserve.
Here's What We'll Cover
Why almost every introverted man who beats shyness does better with women than extraverts The exact type of woman who actually craves introverted men (and you'll likely love her) Shyness doesn't just make you invisible, it gives women the wrong impression. Here's how to flip the script. The "silver bullet" to being truly impressive to a woman...which only introverts have How to make women feel safe and comfortable in magical ways extraverted men flat-out can't Why one of the most treasured stereotypes women hold of the "perfect man"...can only be an introvert Discover the 'quiet man' advantage, and turn the tables on what too many men consider a weakness The #1 mindset most introverted men must have before they can succeed with women Undeniable proof: introverts and extroverts have equal success in relationships Do you do fine socially with most people, but still freeze around women? Here's how to fix that. How women perceive shyness, and why that's critical to understand Extraverts will try to leverage their strengths with women. Neutralize every one of them....and get the girl instead Introverted men can easily ace first dates better than extraverted guys. Here are the reasons why. Start beating shyness with this one simple social exercise (HINT: prepare to be amazed) Boldly make eye contact with women rather than looking away (HINT: It all starts with knowing why it happens) How to start enjoying social opportunities with women instead of dreading them The secret to making a strong first impression stick...even while battling shyness Women have probably been trying to help you beat shyness. Finally recognize how, and let success happen. Type A vs. Type B Introverts. Only one gets women. Why trying to be an extravert will not only backfire, it's actually the opposite of what you should do You've been told shyness and introversion are the same thing. They're related, but completely different. Here's how. Your first step to beating shyness seems obvious...but isn't for most men 
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Dr. Bernie Carducci is a world-renowned professor and expert on shyness. In this audio he reveals how to handle shyness as you’re in the midst of battling it. He also presents a strong case for the difference between shyness and introversion.
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My Power Sessions program lets you ask me unlimited email questions, with real answers in 24 hours or less. By special arrangement, for a full month you can get all the clarification you need after enjoying the Masterclass. NOTE: This is a FREE bonus and will NOT auto-renew.
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It’s easy. Use my online schedule app to get on my calendar for a no-holds-barred 30-minute private Q & A session with me personally. It’s FREE with your ticket. The whole purpose is to make sure your remaining questions after the Masterclass are answered with crystal clarity.
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How Much Of This Will Be Pure Content?
This Masterclass will hit the ground running with practical, actionable info. It will be fluff-free from the very start. There will be plenty of time for your questions at the end, too…all in real time.
If I’m A “Shy Guy”, Isn’t That Just Who I Am?
Absolutely not. Shyness is fear of social situations and you can beat it. Meanwhile, although being introverted is sometimes considered synonymous with being shy, it’s really not. In fact, being an introvert offers powerful advantages with women.
What If I Have Some Of Your Programs Already, Or Have Hired You As My Coach?
The format of this Masterclass is unique in that it doesn’t focus on teaching new premises per se as much as sorting out what WORKS relative to all of the other dating, seduction and relationship advice out there. If I’m your personal coach, this is a unique opportunity to not only get super-focused on what works for YOU personally, but also to interact with a group of like-minded men in real time. In short, you’ll benefit as much, if not more than any other man in the class.
If For Any Reason I’m Not Satisfied, What Happens?
That is extremely unlikely as this Masterclass will over-deliver big time. BUT…if you’re not 100% happy, I’ll give you a full refund. Again, just contact support.
I found so many good, RELEVANT nuggets in the class as well that talk about the real issues men should consider along with tips that I know will work with real women in the real world (the "half-step" is genius). Jim
You helped me to start thinking differently about what I really wanted. This allowed me to really sit back and raise my standards and not just settle for anyone anymore.
After just a few months of talking in depth to you about what I really wanted, I met the perfect *100 out of 100* on my spreadsheet and have finally found the woman who I'll be spending the rest of my life with.
It doesn't hurt either that I'm her perfect guy as well...I guess that's what being a Big 4 Man is what it comes down to in the end!Nick
Scot McKay has shared bad jokes with North Korean military officers, sipped coffee at Pablo Escobar’s home (served by his maid), survived a shark attack while surfing, held his breath as the pride of lions walked by his tent, and blitzed through California canyons with his knee on the double-yellow line at 140 mph. Yet somehow, he has also been referred to as the “sane one” on X by Scott Adams, of all people.
But despite once being mobbed by the Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders, being able to back a 30′ travel trailer into its slot on the first try, and that time he beat the World Champion at his own sport (no details provided), he’s still the most objective and down-to-earth dating expert out there.
He’s also the most fluff-free fountainhead of original dating and relationship content in his field, if only because that’s what nineteen years of immersive geekery on the subject does for someone.
Scot’s wife Emily is his “proof of concept”, given that she’s just as sweet as she is smokin’ hot and still gets carded at her age. But you’ll never hear her brag about any of that, only Scot.
His long-running podcast The Mountain Top is a ListenNotes top 1% show, and has also been named a Top 10 Dating Podcast by DatingAdvice.com. A long time ago Grader.com weirdly ranked Scot the #1 most influential Facebook user in the world.
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