Nowadays it’s as if you have to be perfect to get a woman to go out with you, let alone make that first meeting magical.
But even if you get past that hurdle, why is it always as if there are always even bigger ones on the road ahead?
A million and one things can come out of nowhere and wreck things before you even know what hit you.
And then there are the patterns. That frustrating cycle of attracting broken women, having them say you’re “like a brother to me”, or realizing quickly they’re just in it for what they can get from you.
Is there any wonder fewer and fewer men are even bothering to meet women and go out with them at all?
And relationships? More than ever before, that feels like the ultimate trap. It can be like a minefield. One wrong move and you’re facing a vicious breakup. Or worse, divorce court.
The secret is knowing what to look for, how to plan, and what to do before problems with women can even start. As a man, all of that is within your complete control.
The good news is almost every problem you can possibly run into with women fits into a relatively small amount of categories. And you’re not alone. Those issues are common, and actually predictable when you know what to look for, and the fixes are shockingly effective…and reliably so.
You really can beat the odds, attract the right woman, and actually have a healthy relationship with her.
In this month’s Masterclass For Men, you’ll gain a clear vision for avoiding the pitfalls and dramatically increasing your chances at beating the relationship odds.
Yes, healthy interactions with women have a rhythm to them based on valid principles and strong decision making. Long-term relationships? Even more so.
The hard truth is most men either rely on bad advice designed to reinforce “stinking thinking”, or they just wing it altogether. It’s no wonder their dating lives are like “Groundhog Day”, and they eventually thrown in the towel in bitter defeat.
Don’t believe the hype. Men and women are supposed to be in partnership together, not in conflict–or even competition–with each other. How do we as men ever let our relationships with women get out of hand?
From now on, you’ll have the knowledge, mindset and skills to bypass the anguish and pain most guys experience with women, get straight to the good part, and never look back.
Get your ticket to this all-important Masterclass For Men, and start beating the odds instead of giving in. There may be a lot of noise out there to discourage you, but don’t let it win. Rise above the fray, get the girl you deserve, and keep her.
Better yet, get this right and she’ll be the woman who deserves YOU right back.
You keep ending up with women who have unresolved issues, see you as “safe” instead of sexual, or view the relationship as transactional.
Small misunderstandings always seem to escalate into major blowups, and you’re blindsided when things suddenly fall apart.
You second-guess every move. Text her? Ask her out again? Define the relationship? …Only to hesitate and end up losing her interest.
When she starts nagging, loses attraction, or becomes emotionally distant, you spend too much time figuring out who to blame it on.
You’re paralyzed by fear of accusations or legal nightmares, not knowing how to protect yourself while still interacting with women.
You passively let past baggage, family drama, or life changes derail your relationships…all because you don’t know how to navigate them.
You screen for emotional health and mutual attraction from day one, and make sure she’s in it for who you are, not what you have.
You spot warning signs of distance or disrespect early, address them effectively, and prevent small issues from becoming dealbreakers.
You read her signals accurately, move things forward at the right speed, and have direct conversations instead of playing guessing games.
You diagnose relationship problems correctly, take ownership when needed, and recognize when she’s the source of dysfunction.
You understand how to be selective about character from the beginning, recognizing unstable behavior before it becomes a threat.
You handle tough conversations about history and expectations upfront, and weather life’s storms as a team instead of letting them tear you apart.
For Every Problem, There's A Solution
Why you keep attracting broken women who aren't ready for a real relationship, and the red flags that get ignored most often 
Is fear of false allegations paralyzing you from even talking to women? Here's what actually keeps you in the clear (it's simpler than you think) Why the "Shallow Progression Trap" is a favorite tactic of insecure men, but only leads to certain destruction of the relationship When you're stuck between coming on too strong or being too passive...and why both mistakes kill your shot with her The ninja mindset that stops every misunderstanding from blowing up into a knock-down drag-out fight (and it's dead simple) That gut-wrenching moment when she starts pulling away, and how to tell if she's testing you or already eyeing someone else Why her sexual history hits you like a freight train even when you swore it wouldn't matter, and how to handle the conversation without torching everything The three "Mindsets of Doom" that sabotage you before you even meet her, and why good men get blindsided by these traps the hardest Exactly why she starts nagging, and what to do to fix the problem instead of just getting upset by it How to spot the difference between a woman who wants you vs. one who's just using you, and the signs you've been missing all along Why her respect is slipping through your fingers and you can't tell if you're being too nice or if she's become impossible to please The uncomfortable sex conversations you're dodging that could save you from catastrophic consequences (and she's actually waiting for you to have them with her) How to walk away with your dignity intact when it's really over, and the bold move that might actually bring her back later Why "we need to communicate better" is mainstream B.S., and what's really dying when neither of you feels heard anymore When her kids, psycho family, or toxic friends turn into dealbreakers and you're in too deep to back out cleanly How to handle when her ex resurfaces and jealousy starts eating at you, plus the power move that shuts it down without looking insecure What to so when she drops a bombshell about her past months or years in, and how to process it without letting emotion drive your decision The "boldness vs. patience" minefield every man faces, and why hesitating "just a little longer" can cost you everything When she suddenly transforms into someone you don't recognize (new religion, politics, lifestyle), and whether you can survive the shift Why the fire dies so often in long relationships, and the counterintuitive move that keeps her wanting you for decades 
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When it comes to ending a relationship with a woman with dignity and integrity, there are four possible scenarios you might be facing. Each one has a specific set of steps necessary in order to handle it the best way possible. Make a clean break without making a mess.
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My Power Sessions program lets you ask me unlimited email questions, with real answers in 24 hours or less. By special arrangement, for a full month you can get all the clarification you need after enjoying the Masterclass. NOTE: This is a FREE bonus and will NOT auto-renew.
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The Sheer Number Of Things That Can Go Sideways Is Overwhelming. Can One Masterclass Really Cover It All?
What surprises most guys is how almost every dating and relationship hassle or roadblock comes down to a relatively short list of core issues. Once you know them and can recognize them, both your early-stage interactions with women AND your relationships with them go far more smoothly and trouble-free.
What If I Have A Long History Of Screwing Things Up? What Can I Expect From This Masterclass In Terms Of Real-World Results?
I completely get it. It’s as if history repeats itself with women time and again. Well, once you know WHY it happens, WHAT to do, and HOW it works you then have to skills and the knowledge to stop those patterns dead in their tracks.
How Much Of This Will Be Pure Content?
This Masterclass will hit the ground running with practical, actionable info. It will be fluff-free from the very start. There will be plenty of time for your questions at the end, too…all in real time.
What If I Have Some Of Your Programs Already, Or Have Hired You As My Coach?
The format of this Masterclass is unique in that it doesn’t focus on teaching new premises per se as much as sorting out what WORKS relative to all of the other dating, seduction and relationship advice out there. If I’m your personal coach, this is a unique opportunity to not only get super-focused on what works for YOU personally, but also to interact with a group of like-minded men in real time. In short, you’ll benefit as much, if not more than any other man in the class.
If For Any Reason I’m Not Satisfied, What Happens?
That is extremely unlikely as this Masterclass will over-deliver big time. BUT…if you’re not 100% happy, I’ll give you a full refund. Again, just contact support.
A FULL INTERACTIVE VIDEO EVENT on how to handle virtually any drama, conflict, or trouble with women BONUS: Ask questions via email or Zoom BONUS: Full access forever to the complete video presentation BONUS: Full access forever to the deck of slides BONUS: Immediate access to VAMANOS BONUS: FREE bonuses in the Download Portal after the event 
You helped me to start thinking differently about what I really wanted. This allowed me to really sit back and raise my standards and not just settle for anyone anymore.
After just a few months of talking in depth to you about what I really wanted, I met the perfect *100 out of 100* on my spreadsheet and have finally found the woman who I'll be spending the rest of my life with.
It doesn't hurt either that I'm her perfect guy as well...I guess that's what being a Big 4 Man is what it comes down to in the end!Nick in Boston, MA
Scot McKay has shared bad jokes with North Korean military officers, sipped coffee at Pablo Escobar’s home (served by his maid), survived a shark attack while surfing, held his breath as the pride of lions walked by his tent, and blitzed through California canyons with his knee on the double-yellow line at 140 mph. Yet somehow, he has also been referred to as the “sane one” on X by Scott Adams, of all people.
But despite once being mobbed by the Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders, being able to back a 30′ travel trailer into its slot on the first try, and that time he beat the World Champion at his own sport (no details provided), he’s still the most objective and down-to-earth dating expert out there.
He’s also the most fluff-free fountainhead of original dating and relationship content in his field, if only because that’s what nineteen years of immersive geekery on the subject does for someone.
Scot’s wife Emily is his “proof of concept”, given that she’s just as sweet as she is smokin’ hot and still gets carded at her age. But you’ll never hear her brag about any of that, only Scot.
His long-running podcast The Mountain Top is a ListenNotes top 1% show, and has also been named a Top 10 Dating Podcast by DatingAdvice.com. A long time ago Grader.com weirdly ranked Scot the #1 most influential Facebook user in the world.
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