Divorce Coaching

Deserve What You Want

Master the art and science of relationships. Move on from heartbreak and find true love.

Scot McKay's Book Deserve What You Want

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"Check out Scot's wealth of information about relationships. He’s been at this for a long time and knows what he’s talking about."Raiford Palmer, Managing Partner of STG Law Group and author of I Just Want This Done
I would like to take this time out to just say thank You. Thank you for giving back to the world even after your experience. Thank you for helping men like me be a better man. Thank you for helping women by teaching men. I wish you happiness for the rest of your life with Emily, as you have empowered me to do the same.Daniel
What you're doing is like a Godsend to people like me. It’s good to know what I've been doing wrong for so long, and the well-meaning but often wrong advice of friends and family never really gave much of a clue. Thank you for being out there and helping to change things. The less frustrated guys are out there, the less problems the world will have and the happier we'll all be.Olangato
I haven't felt this good and confident in myself...ever. I can't give you all the credit but you are definitely an integral part. I don't generally blow smoke up people’s keester unless they deserve it.Nathan
There are few peers in your league of what you teach, and none who are as well-rounded or complete in what you teach.Jeff
I can't thank you enough for all the knowledge that you shed upon me! I learned so much from you in the many conversations we had that you just can't put a price tag on. You helped me to start thinking differently about what I really wanted. This allowed me to really sit back and raise my standards and not just settle for anyone anymore.Nick
I wanted to tell you that you are for real. Thank you for providing real value.Mike
Scot and Emily McKay

Scot and Emily McKay

Scot and Emily McKay are professional dating and relationship coaches, authors, conference speakers and podcast hosts. Together they founded X & Y Communications in San Antonio, TX, which focuses on equipping and empowering men and women who want to go from good to great in their relationships. Globally recognized as thought leaders in their field, their work has touched well over 500,000 people all over the world through their newsletters, podcasts and social media. They are the authors of ten books between them, including four Amazon #1 bestsellers, and have been featured by over 500 media outlets worldwide, including MTV, ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, Men’s Health, Elite Daily, Forbes and The Wall Street Journal. Both Scot and Emily are Traveler’s Century Club members, having explored well over 100 countries together, often with their four children.