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Scot and Emily McKay are professional dating and relationship coaches, authors, conference speakers and podcast hosts. Together they founded X & Y Communications in San Antonio, TX, which focuses on equipping and empowering men and women who want to go from good to great in their relationships.
Globally recognized as thought leaders in their field, their work has touched well over 500,000 people all over the world through their newsletters, podcasts and social media.
They are the authors of ten books between them, including four Amazon #1 bestsellers, and have been featured by over 500 media outlets worldwide, including MTV, ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, Men’s Health, Elite Daily, Forbes and The Wall Street Journal.
Both Scot and Emily are Traveler’s Century Club members, having explored well over 100 countries together, often with their four children.