Couples Coaching Is All About Your Future...Together
Statistics measure average people. You can choose to rise above that. Scot McKay

Your Relationship Deserves More Than Just “Getting By”

Right now you might be feeling a distance creeping in. Whatever happened to the little things that used to bring you closer as a couple now?

Conversations feel transactional instead of meaningful. You love each other deeply, but something just feels off.

Maybe you can’t quite put your finger on it, or perhaps it’s obvious. More arguments, less intimacy, conversations that feel shallow or tense. The connection that once felt effortless now seems like a full-time job.

But whatever it is, if you’re being honest, you’re not sure how to fix it.

You want to stop the fights and actually feel heard. You miss feeling like best friends.

That’s a lonely place to be. But you’re not alone. Every couple hits rough patches. The difference between the ones who make it and the ones who don’t? They do something about it.

 

You Don’t Have To Wait Until The Wheels Fall Off

 

Who wants to settle for merely coexisting like roommates? You want to laugh more, talk more, feel more. No matter what life throws at you, you know you are in this together, stronger than ever…ride or die.

That means…

 

Breaking the cycle of those same fights that never get resolved

No more walking on eggshells

Bringing back the deep conversations, the laughter, the connection you miss

Feeling heard, understood, and deeply connected again

Communication that brings you closer instead of pushing you apart

Rebuilding trust if it’s been shaken

Rekindling the passion, intimacy, and joy that made you fall in love in the first place

A deeper connection  that lasts, no matter what life throws at you

A relationship that doesn’t just survive, but thrives

 

Here’s How Couples Coaching Works

 

Scot and Emily McKay have been through it all—over 19 years of “walking the talk”. They’ve empowered hundreds of couples to move past roadblocks and create a happy and fulfilling life together.

It all starts with an honest, judgment-free conversation to get to the root of what’s happening in your relationship…not just the surface issues, but what’s really going on underneath. From there, we’ll map out your personalized plan together. It’s custom-designed specifically for you, so every session actually moves you forward.

This isn’t about band-aid fixes. Expect real, actionable breakthroughs that change the way you communicate, connect, and show up for each other.

You’ll have private, one-on-one coaching sessions (via Zoom, phone, or in-person in San Antonio) at your own pace, with simple (and actually fun) exercises between calls to make sure what you learn sticks.

You don’t have to settle for “just okay.” You deserve a relationship that feels amazing, safe, exciting, and strong.

We've all seen those great couples who seem to be so much in tune that they can finish one another's sentences. They seem to intuit one another's needs before the other person has to ask. Whether they're at a party or at a parent-teacher conference, they just seem to be so much a unit that the rest of us average mortals can't help but feel a little jealous.

Will we ever have that kind of relationship? If you ask Scot and Emily McKay, the answer is 'yes'. They're one of those couples, and they'll tell you that their marriage wasn't just a case of 'lucking out'.Amy Waterman, Relationship Expert (Portland, OR)
You Adore Each Other. Your Relationship Is Worth Everything.

Ten-Plus Benefits

  • Unlimited planning session
  • Customized plan of action (10 topics)
  • 40 minutes of tactical phone time between sessions
  • Unlimited e-mails between sessions, priority e-mail address
  • All 5 of Scot McKay's books
  • 100% satisfaction guarantee
  • Add "flex topics" after completion of the program for an affordable price
  • Results 100% Guaranteed

    The Ten-Plus coaching program is 100% guaranteed. Use the button below to schedule your 25-minute introductory call with us right away.

     

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    Scot and Emily McKay

    Scot and Emily McKay are professional dating and relationship coaches, authors, conference speakers and podcast hosts. Together they founded X & Y Communications in San Antonio, TX, which focuses on equipping and empowering men and women who want to go from good to great in their relationships. Globally recognized as thought leaders in their field, their work has touched well over 500,000 people all over the world through their newsletters, podcasts and social media. They are the authors of ten books between them, including four Amazon #1 bestsellers, and have been featured by over 500 media outlets worldwide, including MTV, ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, Men’s Health, Elite Daily, Forbes and The Wall Street Journal. Both Scot and Emily are Traveler’s Century Club members, having explored well over 100 countries together, often with their four children.